VIRTUAL EXISTENCE

Do we exist only physically????????
Or there are other parameters to our existence...many a times i wonder what does this mean.
What is telepathy? How does that work?
Many a times i have experienced it that when i pick the phone to call somebody,immediately either the phone bell rings and the same person has called or i call up and he/she says that he/she was remembering me.
Why and how this connection is possible?

Similarly when we think of some good /bad happening ,many a times that happens.Why is it written in the scriptures that even if one only thinks of an event good /bad in the mind still the fruit for the same one must bear.
A VIRTUAL THOUGHT IS SO POWERFUL...............

Another example what are these positive or negative vibes?/?
As i meet somebody, generally, either i feel very happy or i don't feel good at all and feel like getting away from that person.Same thing happens when i visit a place........ or somebody's home ......or a certain situation or an event.....
What is all this.........
What kind of an invisible feedback i am getting...........
We are accustomed to live mostly physical or mental....
Still there is some force...may be some memory data.....or reaction data......or something much more accurate....dependable...
or the ability of human being's brain or soul to access the situation,
 getting feedback from many many sources
 MUCH MORE THAN WHAT WE CAN ACTUALLY COMPREHEND

Everyone's existence is may be many folds. We are all connected...
Life is just a path to understand the bigger picture of existence....of communion...
The sacredness of life.

DIFFERENCES VERSUS INDIFFERENCE IN A RELATIONSHIP

That day all the members of the group were almost sure that the group is going to break.Everyone was planing to move ahead,say adieu peacefully.A little perturbed, i was remembering old times spent with these friends. Some good & some bad memories down the years of association,around 23 years .We friends are quite like an extended family,of course having different types of temperament.

We traveled to different places together, umpteen number of times & really enjoyed every trip a lot.I always believed that a person chooses his/her friends.There was always enthusiasm for the monthly get-together.All the details were generally discussed.....What will i wear.....Who all are attending..... What is good/bad news about all..............etc.In a nutshell if i describe the euphoria before the party, was many a times, nostalgic.

We grew together for good 23 years.....There was affection,care,warmth,sincerity,concern for others & of course our dose of differences in opinion & also our share of misunderstandings & fights......But still we were together always,watching everyone's interest......sharing our sorrows & happiness together with concern.

Over the years physical & financial conditions of generally all changed.With these pleasant or unpleasant condition changes,deterioration in the friendly relationship cropped in.We stopped complaining directly........back-biting started.Solution to the problems was being rather not searched or avoided.Indifference to others behavior was the new solution.

Indifferent response continued for the last 2-3years.....So that is how the present state of the group developed.Today every one was may be a little upset thinking about the outcome of an investment of so many years in the friendly relationship............May be this is the last formal get-together.....

The host welcomed all with warmth & due respect & love.The welcome drink, the snacks,the games were all excellent..Now was the time to start the new round ....as we do every year....choose the host for the next month.......
One of the members was reluctant for the next round...He wanted certain norms to be followed,certain rules for the meetings,certain grievances to be discussed, some misunderstandings to be cleared before the next round starts.......A good amount of pleasant/unpleasant discussion followed for around 2 hours.

All of a sudden i could feel the warmth in the heated discussion returning.....Real sincerity......Real concern.....the much needed warmth for finishing the cold behavior of indifference. We started our next round on a very pleasant note.Thanks to breaking the ice.