Childhood gives us practical lessons about the physical. emotional support provided by the elders....our parents.........
Teen years pass while relying the most on friends' opinion......support....a little bit of parent's assurance is also required.
Adulthood witnesses much more competition and hostility in life...again one tries to find solace with a friend....or a spouse..........or a loving elder.......
By this time we start handling our emotions ourselves also.........but still a listening ear soothes ......
Does our emotional dependence decrease with passing years.......or we start being more dependent on others....to take over ....and sometimes play with our emotions......
Have we become dependent ......or dependable........all depends on whether you extended your hand to help others................ or to get help from others...
Generally we don't exercise our potential to find that support from inside ourselves.......and so look at others every time a situation arrives.......in turn becoming more and more dependent....on others' instincts.......others' capabilities...
What if i practice to find that support...that assurance....that faith.........from within myself.
We all are self sufficient ............He has made us as capable as Himself............very strong..... and complete.
We have the capability of being emotionally independent.....much beyond others' support or opinion....completely free.....
Such pure and real freedom is definitely achievable with some trust build up on one self......some soul searching.
Teen years pass while relying the most on friends' opinion......support....a little bit of parent's assurance is also required.
Adulthood witnesses much more competition and hostility in life...again one tries to find solace with a friend....or a spouse..........or a loving elder.......
By this time we start handling our emotions ourselves also.........but still a listening ear soothes ......
Does our emotional dependence decrease with passing years.......or we start being more dependent on others....to take over ....and sometimes play with our emotions......
Have we become dependent ......or dependable........all depends on whether you extended your hand to help others................ or to get help from others...
Generally we don't exercise our potential to find that support from inside ourselves.......and so look at others every time a situation arrives.......in turn becoming more and more dependent....on others' instincts.......others' capabilities...
What if i practice to find that support...that assurance....that faith.........from within myself.
We all are self sufficient ............He has made us as capable as Himself............very strong..... and complete.
We have the capability of being emotionally independent.....much beyond others' support or opinion....completely free.....
Such pure and real freedom is definitely achievable with some trust build up on one self......some soul searching.
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