Relationship between two individuals may be casual, social,
emotional, and physical…….. or exchange and co ordinance at a higher level……may
be platonic, psychological, spiritual.
Some persons are supportive and others give support…..Of
course sometimes one has to take support and sometimes one gives support ………. Psychology
of a human being is too complex to be understood in one go……sometimes I feel
it is rather impossible to actually understand even a single person fully…….
Mind is so complicated with varied thoughts…negative as
well as positive…..and let’s not forget that negative and positive…good or
bad……virtue and vice …are all relative concepts …differing in their
interpretation in different circumstances….
We eagerly try to understand the other individuals……but do
we actually have the capability to know others well………
Probably more important
and appropriate introspection would be whether we have the capability to
understand self……its needs physical, emotional, social, psychological…..…..its
tendencies…….its aversions and influences…..its approach towards life………is it a
balanced one or more materialistic or spiritual.
Basically we don’t understand ourselves…..me, myself……..then
how can we understand anybody else.
I, self is the most closest to the being…still sometimes
its own reactions are beyond acceptance……..we don’t accept because we don’t
expect certain behavior or reactions from self………….
Why do we have relationships……..beyond social reasons there is a search or quest of the self for getting a feel of completeness…………..In itself…… self has a feeling of incompleteness……..an emptiness……a shallowness……a gap between it and fullness………so we start searching…… beyond self……. towards others…….
Can two or more incomplete entities make each other
complete………I don’t think so.
Everyone is complete in itself…..just like Almighty……..
The need is to go beyond falseness of others…and falseness of
self….
The quest is to fully understand, accept…approve…and be in
a kind of platonic love for the thy self…
2 comments:
Rightly said. Discovering and being at peace with oneself is akin to godliness.
Akin to Godliness.... rightly said
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