MY TRYST WITH NAME AND FAME

As a twenty something I had a strong desire to be famous, outstanding have a name……..the one really outstanding in the whole crowd, wanted my dreams of teens to come true. Time passed. Years, decades rolled. Nothing called name or fame happened in the real sense, may be due to non-perseverance in my efforts or some situational bends of life, that dream to become famous got the dirt of time over it. Although remained there as a memory …a sweet aspiration of my life.

Decades passed. During these decades tried to perform all my rightful duties to the optimum level in a very balanced way and by grace of God was fairly successful also….and still keeping up with my social responsibilities. At this stage when not many of worldly duties are there to be taken care of, just tried to take off all the dirt that had accumulated on my sweetest desire of being famous. Tried to push some fire into it to ignite the flame again, but lo…. what I realize is that it no longer matters.

The desire to be famous is gone…..when it went away …have no idea.

As a twenty something when started having tryst with society on my own…unprotected …unguarded…

Had to always prove my point….at every point

Had to prove my worth….at every level.

Every time was required to solve all the problems of that particular phase…. whether I was worthy of finding a solution or not.

How very conveniently we accept this very fact that a twenty something person is apt to handle his own life as well as take all responsibilities what so ever fall on him.

As the time passed probably realized the reality of life that helped in moving from self gratification to self awareness…Leading one’s life successfully to the optimum level ….in a balanced way  taking care of all the aspects of life is probably more important than a freak experience with fame or any other …be it power, money etc.

Life is difficult for all. A person who takes it as a challenge and tries his best to achieve the desired result is definitely a successful man irrespective of the positive or negative outcome of this challenge that surfaced in his life. He is famous in his own way.... may be in a very personal way.

He is star of his own life…………..

Important is the input for a positive result….the sincere hard work that one puts in during that course of trial in the wide, varied field....the life.

The sincere effort….is the most important to make one a star.