Right from childhood to young age to middle age to old age we are running for getting recognized. A child seeks the approval of his parents.Watch a child carefully every time he smiles he looks towards the person he associates the most,the parents........or a caring figure...
A sparkle can be seen in his eyes when somebody recognizes his act lovingly.Similarly at every stage of life we need a constant reminder that yes we are being appreciated........or being recognized or loved...
Basic need of a human-being seems to be recognized by may be almost everybody......whether physically possible or not.......whether the capability is there or not....Whether the performance is up to grade or not.....................understanding by others...love from others...reassurance from others is constantly needed......Why...
Why do we seem to be so incompetent.....incomplete...in handling ourselves....
Why an approval of that....... may be not enough competent other.... is always so much needed......
Why are we unable to understand our own self.....is it easier to fall upon others ......than trying to self assess.....may be yes ...an easy way out .
Now what if i try to understand my self...love myself ................no body knows me better than myself........all my strength and my weakness is best known to me.........
Knowing myself is like first watching myself carefully and then understanding each an every action and reaction of mine.......
We are blessed by Almighty with infinite potential for anything and everything......then why not seek self approval only......nobody can be a better judge than one self..........
Whole of approval.....recognition...love should first come from self.........
Then whether all others recognize you or not does not make any difference at all...
People are always in awe of such beings.......
Self recognition....self realization is the quest of soul.
A sparkle can be seen in his eyes when somebody recognizes his act lovingly.Similarly at every stage of life we need a constant reminder that yes we are being appreciated........or being recognized or loved...
Basic need of a human-being seems to be recognized by may be almost everybody......whether physically possible or not.......whether the capability is there or not....Whether the performance is up to grade or not.....................understanding by others...love from others...reassurance from others is constantly needed......Why...
Why do we seem to be so incompetent.....incomplete...in handling ourselves....
Why an approval of that....... may be not enough competent other.... is always so much needed......
Why are we unable to understand our own self.....is it easier to fall upon others ......than trying to self assess.....may be yes ...an easy way out .
Now what if i try to understand my self...love myself ................no body knows me better than myself........all my strength and my weakness is best known to me.........
Knowing myself is like first watching myself carefully and then understanding each an every action and reaction of mine.......
We are blessed by Almighty with infinite potential for anything and everything......then why not seek self approval only......nobody can be a better judge than one self..........
Whole of approval.....recognition...love should first come from self.........
Then whether all others recognize you or not does not make any difference at all...
People are always in awe of such beings.......
Self recognition....self realization is the quest of soul.
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