We are social beings and so feel comfortable in the company of other human beings.The new born finds comfort in mother's close proximity.As a young child also parents' proximity is soothing, reassuring and supportive.As teenagers generally one tends to get into company of friends more, which is again a tendency to interact within that age group.
As life passes on..... the faces change from parents to friends to spouse to off springs and then to certain relatives, friends or may be grandchildren. An endless opportunity we seek to communicate.Generally everyone is too happy when others are present around.....
In the absence of people we start using different communicating or entertainment gadgets or watch television or play a music system or seek virtual communication with unknown people on internet....why is this happening....why that reassurance is not coming from within.
We try to create an environment so that we never find ourselves alone....some people have fear of spending time without company....the moment they are alone they start behaving differently.... either depressed or aggressive......so a constant physical or mental activity is sought after even if tired physically or mentally...
This constant communion with others and unending communication starves our inherent ability to sustain alone.The mental dependency on others.....on our relations increases with each passing year, making it so difficult to live alone in solitude.
Attachment to the relationships increases, making it more difficult to spend some time with self for self introspection,self analysis.
That enriching experience to know self is lost.......................
As life passes on..... the faces change from parents to friends to spouse to off springs and then to certain relatives, friends or may be grandchildren. An endless opportunity we seek to communicate.Generally everyone is too happy when others are present around.....
In the absence of people we start using different communicating or entertainment gadgets or watch television or play a music system or seek virtual communication with unknown people on internet....why is this happening....why that reassurance is not coming from within.
We try to create an environment so that we never find ourselves alone....some people have fear of spending time without company....the moment they are alone they start behaving differently.... either depressed or aggressive......so a constant physical or mental activity is sought after even if tired physically or mentally...
This constant communion with others and unending communication starves our inherent ability to sustain alone.The mental dependency on others.....on our relations increases with each passing year, making it so difficult to live alone in solitude.
Attachment to the relationships increases, making it more difficult to spend some time with self for self introspection,self analysis.
That enriching experience to know self is lost.......................
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